Every teacher has something called “The Pacing Guide.” This is a document we design at the start of the year that outlines the curriculum and how we intend to cover it. When teachers get stressed, it sometimes has to do with the pressure of the pace. Snow days, picture days, sick days all throw off the efficiency of how fast we move through the curriculum.
Sometimes pacing guides are helpful because they keep us on track. For example, before we can take the kids to see a real Shakespeare play; we have to study the play, which means that the literature circles we are running must be wrapped up at a certain time. Other times they trap us, “WHAT!? There is a last minute school wide assembly!? I don’t care if the kids are going to love it, how am I supposed to finish my lesson on incorporating dialogue effectively!?” Silly yes, but all teachers have “those” moments when we hold so tightly to our curriculum that we lose the moment.
This is what I try to live by… the curriculum is NEVER as important as the child. But sometimes in the era of testing and teacher accountability, it is easy to get caught up in pace of the curriculum… teach, test, repeat. We all need to breathe and relax because the kids are just that… kids. They are going to forget pencils and homework; they are going to need to talk with a guidance counselor about a fight with a friend; they are going to want to go outside on the first pretty day of spring even if it isn’t scheduled on the “pacing guide.”
This week a young man in my class got gum stuck in his hair. As a teacher, I could have made him feel badly by scolding him from detracting from the lesson on essay writing, or I could have said that tried and true teacher statement, “See, this is why we don’t chew gum in school.” Instead, pausing the lesson, I sent students out on missions for peanut butter and a fine tooth comb. It took about 15 minutes, but we got it all out. As the young man smiled and thanked me for helping him, I thought this will be one thing he will remember about 6th grade language arts. Because gum getting stuck in your hair, a teacher willing to help, and classmates laughing at a pause in learning, trumps writing an essay.
As we move through the school year, it is important to cover the curriculum, but I think it is more important to value and honor childhood. When my students leave me, I know I will have taught them intro phrases, comma placement, and dialogue rules. I will expose them to the writings of Maya Angelou and Langston Hughes. My students will study a Shakespeare play and my all time favorite middle school novel Maniac Magee by Jerry Spinelli. Before they leave me, they will know many Latin and Greek roots, and they will write creative stories, letters, essays, and poetry. However, twenty years from now, I don’t know if it will be remembered that all that learning took place. The pacing guide will be covered, and for the most part, kids will retain the information, but I don’t think it will necessarily be linked to me or my class. Instead, it is going to be the moments they remember: a fierce kickball game, a joke we shared, a time I helped with a personal problem.
Yep, I’m convinced, gum in the hair will be the memory of 6th grade for my one young student, and it wasn’t even on my pacing guide.
“People will forget what you said. People will forget what you did. But people will never forget how you made them feel.” ~Maya Angelou